Thursday, July 30, 2020

One Last Holiday on our Holiday

European vacation with l'il kids? Yup, we be crazy.
"Manos para sempre" - siblings forever!
1,550km of highway, 16 hours in the car, 25 tourist destinations, 8 pools & beaches, 7 hotels/vilas/airB&Bs: our family took on Portugal from south to north!

Aside from being masked at all indoor venues, COVID didn't stop us. In fact, with so few tourists in Portugal this summer, there was no traffic, no line-ups, no problems with finding a place to park or sleep. Silver lining my friends.

Jonty's take on our month-long trek:
"Um...we ate in restaurants which always took too long, looked at giant piles of old rocks, heard you say "Oh look! Isn't it beautiful?!" about 30 times a day, walked a million miles, and ate ice cream."

Mom and dad's take on the holiday:
"We experienced delicious, unique gastronomy from each region; saw castles, buildings, and cities oozing in history and culture; were constantly inspired with different scenery, architecture, landscaping and art; and slept well every night after an active day."

LOL!  The kids were smiling and happy most of the time, and we saw and did lots of memorable things. Sure, there were moments when Mark and I thought: "This would be different without kids." (would have been nice to take more than 5 minutes to sample Port wine).

But, with help from my mom, cousin and aunt (obrigada!), we planned and executed a great adventure, fun for all: boat, gondola and train rides, kid-friendly venues, ice cream & swimming coupled with evening strolls through majestic cities, many restaurant sittings, and lots of historic places. We'd do it all again. If I could plan it on a week that wasn't the hottest of the year, I would do that.

We will be back--so much still to see!

At 42C, a hot day for a boat ride to the only Portuguese castle on an island.

Portugal for Kids: elements of the country's main monuments and 35 typical houses
from across the land built in miniature for the kids to explore. The kids LOVED it.

Conimbriga: the best preserved Roman ruins in Portugal.
Those Romans knew how to live!

Lello Bookshop in Porto - some say it inspired Hogwart's library in Harry Potter.
It was crazy cool.

At the train station in Porto.
It's hard not to be amazed at how much effort went into making cities and public spaces beautiful.
Will we ever get back to that? It fills the soul.

We climbed the 200 steps of the Clerigos Tower. What a fabulous 360 view!

A definite highlight: visiting a Magalhaes family seigneurial home built in 1580.
My great grandfather was the Count of Alpendurada, close by.
The kids explored the mansion, chapel and gardens all afternoon!

In Guimaraes, the birthplace of Portugal, where the first king was born.
Jonty took Portuguese history this year, so all these stops were familiar to both of us.
I loved it. He rolled his eyes at me a lot...

In the midst of a forest with over 700 species of trees, shrubs and flowers, on the top of a mountain, ta-dah!
The Bussaco Palace and a random train that made the kids happy.

Gabi taking the place of mule while we made an old well come to life.
In the Algarve.

Watching the sunset over Coimbra, sitting at one of Europe's oldest university, built in 1290.
My dad did one year of schooling here. So much tradition.

"Let them swim", while we drink Port Tonics and wine in the famous Douro Region. 

Port wine tasting--a very quick, but tasty experience.

Relaxing at a vila in Luso. This is the life! 

Soaking up family time at a quaint sea-side village I went to as a child.
Sao Pedro de Moel

Holidays are always better with friends!
Hanging out in Nazare, home to the biggest wave ever surfed.

Climbing an olive tree at our resort near Tavira, Algarve.

This ceremonial well in Sintra, features a spiral staircase into a tunnel system.
The huge garden and estate is full of secret passages, towers, paths, statues, fountains...
Mark and I kept asking each other which incredible features we can add to our yard!

Riding a typical Merchant boat through the canals of Aveiro
(also known as the Venice of Portugal).

Sunday, July 5, 2020

Bye Sesimbra: As Saudades Serão Muitas

"Saudade": one of those great words that doesn't quite translate into English. The closest I think is a feeling of longing for a person, a place, or an experience that comes from parting. I will forever have "saudades" of the time we've had here in this little fishing village of Sesimbra.


It's not that we won't be back to visit. I know we will.  But it won't ever be the same.

My kids won't be little again. Walking through town, we won't bump into familiar faces from school and social activities and chat with people in their currently fluent Portuguese. The bakery won't know my bread and pastry order by heart. Mark's fish guy will no longer hold onto the best catch for him. We won't see the street cleaner's happy, toothless smile when my girls say "Bom Dia!" on our way to school.  Catarina's unique-to-Portugual blonde hair and blue eyes won't capture the attention of every senior as she skips through the park smelling every flower. "Our" spot on the beach where our friend's know to find us in the late afternoon will become someone else's. We won't hear the church bells ringing, telling us on the 8th chime "It's time to go in for supper". Ultimately, we'll no longer be part of this community anymore, and that makes me sad.

This year was unforgettable. I lived my dream: I stole a year with just my kids and husband, and together, the 5 of us experienced something new and exciting in a picturesque European village. I met great people, whose stories gave me perspective and whose friendship made the year sparkle. We enjoyed a lifestyle impressively void from stress in a place where our whole life could be lived within 500m. We benefited from interacting with the ocean everyday, and soaking up this glorious sun. Sigh, we are going to miss this place.

But, we are good at living in the moment, and quickly remember that our life in Canada is awesome too, and that a lifetime of adventure awaits us there.

So, we'll say "Ate logo, Sesimbra" and drive off on our month-long road trip through Portugal.

Here's hoping COVID19 stays in check and doesn't mess it up! 

And way to go Peterborough--2 weeks with no new cases. Just in time for our return. Don't worry, we'll be quarantining!


Surrounded by friendly dolphins when we were out on a friend's boat.

Jonty says "you're a different color now, mom".
Ah, sun year round is a glorious thing!

Oh, the color of the water...you'd think we're in the Caribbean!
Paddleboarding is harder than I thought.

199 corks were collected during the 10 months in our apartment.
We are going to miss how affordable wine is here.

Taking our baby to her last day of school.
This girl has changed so much. JK, get ready for her!

Oh this market. We will miss our chatty vendors and their super fresh food.

Happy 153 years Canada! We held a birthday party and invited friends.
Forever proud to be Canadian!

How we've loved walking the beach on warm nights.

Living above Ribamar restaurant was something else.
Oh, the amazing smells that came from their grill!

One last stop at our favourite candy shop: O Coelhinho Doce

We felt so much a part of this community; true "Sesimbrenses"

Thinking of making this our 2020 Christmas card.
One picture can say so much!

We all leave with mixed emotions:
sad to leave this behind, excited for what lies ahead.
Everyone is reacting differently: steep learning curve for parenting this week.

Our "last supper".
Yes, burgers--had to clear out the freezer!
We all adored our daily ocean-view seating.